Thursday, November 18, 2010

Resolutions

I have never been big on New Year's resolutions. Seems like one of those dumb promises you make to yourself that you end up breaking after a month anyways. And they typically seem so cliche. I get really irritated at all the people who make the resolution to lose all kinds of weight because those are the people that are crowding my gym the first 3 months of the year and then never come back. It's annoying for those of us who work out year round.

Anyway...I started thinking this year of all these random habits I'd like to start doing and thought maybe this would be a good start to actually doing some New Years resolution. Nothing like "I will eat healthier, or workout everyday." Nothing cliche like that. Just small habits that will make life easier. Like....maybe every Mon-Fri that I'm home before 10 pm, check the mail. I have a bad habit of checking it once a week and then I HATE going thru it all. Then it ends up making a huge mess because it just sits on the counter. Or maybe even to fix the bed every morning. Little things like this. So Brandon and I decided that we will each make a resolution of our own and then also make one together. We will also set up a jar for each of us. Every time I don't follow thru with my resolution, I have to put $1 in his jar and every time he doesn't follow thru with his, he puts $1 in my jar.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Get your own machine

The greatest thing about working about at 5:30 am is that there is hardly anyone at the gym. You can really focus on getting done what you want to get done, and even better, can typically get a better workout in since there is more available. Sometimes, I like to go back and forth between 2 machines since there is the availability to do so. I only did that thru one set this morning and then just stuck to one machine the rest of the time.

Anyways......so I have my earphones in and started my first set of squats. I barely put the bar down and some guy comes up, interrupts my workout to ask me if I was almost done. SERIOUSLY? It's 6 am, there is NO ONE here and you have to come interrupt my workout instead of just waiting? I told him how many sets I had left and did not rush. I guess he was sitting in the corner counting because once I set the bar down, I wasn't even out from under the bar when he comes up and starts taking weights off. If it was 6 pm when the gym is super packed, this is understandable but it was rather annoying.

Also...I don't think it's appropriate to talk to anyone if they have earphones in UNLESS you know them. If I have my earplugs in, leave me the eff alone and just wait your turn.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Boot Camp on Tuesday Mornings

Lately I've been wanting to change up my workout routine because I'm bored. I thought about signing up for another boot camp but decided I shouldn't spend the money since I have a gym membership and they offer several different types of classes, one of which is 24 Camp.

I've done 24 Camp several times, all with different instructors (my favorite is Domingo who teaches on Monday nights at 6:30 at Wm Cannon West). I went Tuesday morning at 5:30 am and I don't remember the lady's name who teaches on Tuesday mornings but she was terrible!!! Needless to say....I'm never going back on Tuesday morning. This is why I think (and I'm not alone in thinking these things) she was a bad instructor:

  • She didn't give alternatives to "not so friendly" on the knee moves. Not all of us have the strongest knees
  • When she actually did give an alternative (after she saw me stop and hold my knee), she used the phrase, "If you do not WANT to do this exercise........". Hey lady....this has NOTHING to do with WANT. I physically cannot do it. Isn't this class for all fitness levels?
  • Too cardio intensive. I have done a boot camp every year for the last 4 years. NONE of them focus soley on cardio. She tries to make it so you can barely breathe before moving on to strength.......uh really lady? REAL boot camps have a happy combination of cardio and strength all mixed together. Domingo on Monday nights is very good at this. Maybe you should attend his class.
  • Instead of being encouraging, she was a little condescending.

Ok....that's really it. It doesn't sound like a lot but for the entire hour I was in there, I was thinking how I need to blog about how much this sucks. Ha!

Monday, April 12, 2010

More Wedding

I have just over 2 months til the wedding and while I feel like I have so much done, I also feel there is still much to do! I went in for my first dress fitting this weekend and had to get it taken in! Yay! That is always a fabulous feeling.

Last weekend, my mom came and stayed with me while Brandon was in Vegas for his bachelor party (yes, it was very early) and we had a great time. She was finally able to figure out exactly what I wanted so we got some hair pieces, bouquets, and boutinierres done and I was able to get one type of my centerpieces figured out and a few done. Now that I know exactly what to do and how they will look, it will only take a few minutes each to finish.

Now that I am finished with my CPA exam and have more time on my hands, I have decided to start training for a triathlon today! I'll keep you posted how that goes....

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Time is flying

So much going on and yet I just want to keep adding more. I will never recommend to anyone to plan a wedding and try to accomplish something major at the same time (CPA exam studying and wedding planning together is a recipe for stress…mostly the studying part). And now that I see a definite light at the end of the tunnel, I’m trying to find more things to do to fill up my time. My upcoming events are:

  • Feb 27 – REG section of the CPA exam at noon and margaritas immediately after.
  • Feb 28 – Girls day in Fredericksburg and surround hill country for some wine tasting
  • March 7 – Dodgeball tournament
  • March 11 – Happy Hour at Max’s Wine Dive with my Reception photographer to talk about my album, event, and bridals
  • April 10 – Dress Fitting
  • April 24 – Bridal Shower in Kansas
  • May 22 – Bachelorette Party
  • Lingerie Shower – Date TBD in May
  • Bridals – Date TBD in May
  • June 12-20 – Dominican Republic for Wedding/Honeymoon
  • June 26 – Wedding Reception


As if these aren’t enough to focus on for the time being, I really want to start painting different room in the house and remodel some of our walls. I also want to start training for a triathalon but not sure where to start. The most I have ever done is a 10k with obstacles and that was fun but I need something more challenging. I’m a little hesitant to start though because if, God forbid, I don’t pass this exam on Saturday, I will need to divert my efforts from training back to studying. I also want to start playing sports again. I haven’t played softball since like July/August 2009 and I’m kinda missing it.
At least with all that is currently going on, time is going to fly and this wedding will come sooner that it seems. I can’t believe I will be married in less than 4 months!

Friday, February 19, 2010

Hell of a morning

Oh man did I have one hell of a week but the icing on the cake was Friday morning. Let me just start at the beginning.



  • First of all, there were 4 late nights in row so the beginning of the week was already super exhausting. Was up til almost 4 am playing poker at my brothers Friday (Feb 12) night, went downtown Saturday night for Amanda's birthday, went to Gruene Hall for a Bob Schneider concert for Valentines day and then had volleyball Monday night.

  • Monday night, our dogs slept with us and we leave the bedroom door open. BIG MISTAKE. Colt decides to get out of bed at about 12:45 am and have a hay day in the living room. Coffee knocked over onto the carpet (no, I should not have left my half full coffee cup out), pistachio seeds everywhere, shredded up papers, a water bottle punctured and spilled everywhere, even on the IRA papers I was filling out to send in. Good thing I didn't leave my study materials in there for him to tear up as well.

  • I start having nightmares about the dance troop I hired for my wedding reception cancelling on me and having no entertainment so I start frantically emailing them everyday to make sure my date is still booked.

  • Wednesday, Colt decides to pull our 30 lb outdoor fountain around the yard.

  • Friday morning when Brandon was leaving for work, he noticed I have a flat tire. UGH!!! So we spend the next 30 minutes changing it. When we go back inside, Colt has completely ransacked our house. He stood on his hind legs and knocked over a glass of ice water. He pulled on the bamboo place mat on my kitchen table knocking over one of my asian dish sets and shattering the rice bowl, stuff was ALL OVER the living room including a shredded book cover. The nightstand in the bedroom was completely empty b/c he knocked everything off and even left scratch marks. The stuff on the master bathroom counter had been knocked into one of the sinks with the exception of the tissues, which made it to the floor for some doggy shredding! OH MAN! By the time we had gotten back in the house, I had about 15 minutes to get ready for work so I ended up looking like crap all day.

Monday, February 15, 2010

Wedding Registry

What happens when you take your fiancĂ©e to register for wedding gifts? You register for things such as a $0.99 pan scraper. Why didn’t we just buy it? I took him with me to pick out our cookware since we desperately need to upgrade. He starts playing with random items instead of paying much attention and picks up a pan scraper and says “Here scan this” and I’m not really paying a whole lot of attention. Later when I’m looking back over the registry, I see that and just laugh.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Wedding Details are Coming Together

I placed the order for my wedding invitations last week or late the week before.....I can't quite remember. They were shipped out on Thursday, 1/28/10. I'm so excited. It took me a while to figure out exactly how to do them since I'm doing 2 completely separate events for the ceremony and reception. I picked out invitations very unique for the ceremony and decided I loved them so much, I wanted everyone to have them. I originally wanted to two separate sets of invitations so that no one confused the dates....especially those invited to the ceremony but who can't make it. But since pretty much everyone is going, I decided that it will be easy to get around the confusion.

I also contacted the photograper that I'm using for the Austin reception and since she is still starting up her business and getting her website going, she said she would do bridals for free since they need more bridals for her website. I wasn't even going to have bridals done because I thought it was a waste money. I was, instead, going to wait til after the wedding and reception and hire a photographer to do a "trash the dress" session and literally trash my dress! I got the idea for the photographer I'm using in the Dominican Republic and it looks sooooo fun!

I have my appointment to have my dress fitted on April 10, meeting with my photographer on March 11, I have already done most of my registry, the bridesmaid dresses are ordered, ordered the groomsman gifts, etc. The only things I really have left to do are things I can't do until it's gets closer.

And for the fun part......only 4.5 months until I'm a married woman!!! I can't believe it.

Friday, January 29, 2010

Bikram Yoga is Nothing but Phony Yoga

Lately I have been practicing yoga and really enjoy it. I’m not doing it necessarily to lose weight, it just feels good for my body and I can feel myself gaining strength and flexibility. I have taken two beginners classes to learn about yoga and how to perform the postures correctly. I have taken Hatha beginners and Ashtanga beginners (I took this one twice) in addition to trying regular classes. I thoroughly enjoy it and love the teachers and the fact that they will give you personal attention, tell you what you are doing wrong, what the benefit of each posture is and what can happen if you do it wrong. I have been practicing at Yoga Yoga in Austin at the South Lamar and Westgate locations.

I just recently tried Bikram yoga and thoroughly HATED it. The instruction was awful, the practice is horrible. It goes against everything that I have envisioned yoga to be about. I did a search on Bikram yoga after taking this class and found a few disturbing facts.
First…Bikram yoga was “invented” in 1973. Real yoga has been around for thousands of years and the practice and teaching has been handed down over generations to make sure it’s taught correctly.

Second….Bikram “stole” poses and claimed them to be his own and has even sued other yoga studios for using “his” postures. And he brags about his money, possessions, and women and taunts his students while he teaches. Here are a couple of excerpts I found.

“Bikram Choudury is controversial because he selected 26 postures from a 4000 year old Indian yogic tradition and copyrighted them. Historically yoga has been taught free or by donation. The asanas are not considered to be "owned" by any one human until this particular case. He has sued many people for performing "his" yoga poses. Bikram's behavior is also decidedly unyogic-- he taunts students, make fun of those who cannot do all the poses, curses and yells in class, and brags about his money, women and his possessions while teaching.” - Wikipedia

"That being said, Bikram Yoga is a hellish torture test, designed by people for whom I can only guess, want to feel as much public pain and discomfort as possible" – From a guy who loves yoga and all the benefits of yoga

Here is one of my favorites because it talks about Ashtanga which I absolutely love! It’s a great workout and you are constantly moving and building strength to eventually be able to do the full postures. One day, I may write a blog about Ashtanga because that is a true workout:

"Bikram yoga is NOT good for you. It forces your body by using heat into postures that it is not ready for and can have long lasting, damaging effects. The only reason it feels like its good for you is because you feel exhausted, drained and defeated. This style gives yoga a bad name. Bikram yoga is limited to 26 poses. They are the same every time! There exists 100s of yoga poses that target different muscle groups and when using them in variety is the only way to get a total body workout. Please, do the research! Bikram is taking advantage of yoga’s good name and claim to medical benefits and not following through.I am a certified hatha yoga instructor and experimented with bikram for a year until finally injuring by lower back. I know many others who have been injured and never seemed to get any stronger, thinner, or more balanced. If you are looking for a workout, try ashtanga–if you’re looking relief from: stress, anxiety, depression, hypertension, sciatica; try any other form of yoga!! If you like the heat, which was my favorite part, try heated vinyasa flow. Your body and mind will thank you!"

Here a few of the reasons why I hated Bikram:
  • They do not teach proper ways to perform the postures and how it benefits your body and if you do it wrong, how it can hurt your body
  • They stress over and over again, “Lock your knees, lock your knees, lock your knees.” In every yoga class I have taken, it’s been stressed over and over again how dangerous it is to lock your knees and that your leg should always be “engaged” meaning not locked. It should be “active.” Your leg can be straight but never locked, thus keeping it engaged and active. Some of the postures they put you in with locked legs feels like you can seriously injure yourself and I’ve read several posting of bikram students tearing their meniscus in practicing bikram yoga. Gee, I wonder why?
  • Backbending: Most backbend postures are meant to bend your upper back and make your upper back more flexible and to remove the stress from your lower back. Most people’s lower backs are already pretty flexible and the key to back bending is to evenly distribute you’re the “bend” throughout your back. In bikram, the teacher says “if this hurts your back, you are doing good.” This is not the good kind of hurt either. This is the serious injury type of hurt. Upward dog (or cobra) is not supposed to be used to make your lower back more flexible but instead to get you to focus on bending your upper back.
  • Your head should never just hang backwards but bikram has several poses where you do this. In every yoga class I have taken, the neck is considered part of your spine and you always want to attempt to keep your spine in some sort of line (except when back bending). If you are hanging your head all the way back, you are stressing out that part of your neck because of the weight of your head. And this is not “neutral spine.” My neck actually hurts so bad today from all of this.
  • Forward Bending: The bikram instructor, when doing seated forward bends did not explain the proper way to sit (which is high on your “sit bones”). Sitting upright properly is very difficult but it removes the curve for your lower back which most people have naturally when sitting all day. We normally sit back our tailbones which causes your lower back to curve out. Then when doing the forward bend, if you start sitting wrong, you will bend wrong and will get no benefit. Also, she stressed, “The most important this is that your head touch your knee.” Really lady? How does that benefit anything? First, you will have several people do one of two things: Strain and push their hamstrings so hard that they tear a muscle or hunch over so their head touches their knee. Again, with forward bending, you want to bed from your hips w/out rounding your back excessively and keeping a neutral spine and keeping your chest up to enable that. More often than not, when done properly, your head will not touch your knee unless you have really worked on this for a long time and become that flexible which is the ultimate goal.
  • Bikram yoga just throws you into these very difficult and advanced poses. There is no gradual process or modified versions if one cannot perform a particular pose. Yoga is something that is difficult and needs to be worked towards to do full postures. Not everyone is built the same and for these instructors to try and get you to push your body to do something you are not ready for is really bad. Sure, we can all do what we want and can do but they teach no proper ways on anything. It’s horrible.

    The only benefits I got out of bikram yoga was that I can fully appreciate now the true benefits of yoga from a practice that has been passed down for centuries from the true yoga classes I have taken before trying bikram. That….and I like to sweat so that was good. Bikram is really no different than sitting in a sauna and stretching your body til you injure yourself. People who pay the obscene amounts of money that bikram costs are crazy. All yoga is expensive but I will gladly pay Yoga Yoga their prices because I know I will be getting great instruction from teachers who are qualified and know what they are talking about. These bikram instructors can’t even do half the practice. They just stand up there and drill you like you are in bootcamp but do nothing. At Yoga Yoga, the instructors will physically show you what the pose should look like and modified versions and can show what the wrong way of doing it is and show how it would hurt you. It makes me fully appreciate everything they have ever showed me and further my beliefs in what they are saying.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Pooping in Public

The other day as I was in the restroom, which our office has to share with the entire 5th floor, I starting thinking, "What is the big deal about pooping?" Everyone does it, it's a natural part of life, it's not like you do it out in the open for everyone to see, you are in a restroom. So why does everyone make a big deal about pooping in a public restroom? I was thinking this because I was in there with someone who clearly wanted to poop but was waiting for me to leave. I'm guilty of it too. Sometimes I'm in the restroom and someone else is in the stall and we end up having what I call a "poop off." Both of us are waiting for the other person to leave before we start pooping. I don't get it. It's like this stigma that society doesn't want other people to know when we poop. It's weird. It's even worse if you walk into the restroom and the person in the bathroom sees you. It's like, if they don't know who is in the stall, pooping is ok but if they see you, we just hope to force out some pee so they don't know we really need to poop. It's all just funny to me.